Forget the name that's just me being sarcastic. This blog is about what we should or should not expect from our loved ones during a reading. I always tell clients before a reading to talk to their loved ones, tell them you want them to come through for you because it will raise their energy. When people do this they often throw in a " if it's really you say this."
Now remember, I've been in your shoes. I may be a medium but I'm seriously an everyday, normal gal that's lived on your side. I'm a complete skeptic and it takes a lot to make me "believe." That's probably weird to hear coming from someone that talks to spirit.
It's true. I have been a medium my entire life but haven't known my entire life. I've been to a medium and been read just like most of you. At the time of my reading she did know a lot but couldn't speak to the one person I wanted to. He just wasn't ready yet. So although I got something, it wasn't at all what I expected.
After I spoke with Pat, my spiritual teacher/healer for all of you that don't know, she told me to watch Theresa Caputo for learning purposes. Once I started doing my own readings I wanted to see her live.
I went to her show and told Scott, my cousin that killed himself to come through using my tattoo. I said, if you say "Love" I will know its you. Well, just like most of you, he didn't say that at all. He instead came through using birds, lots of birds.
I don't own birds, but his mom does. She has 5 birds. So when Theresa said " Who connects with birds?" I sat silently. She asked again and a few people would yell out something and she said "No, I mean like big parrot birds." As soon as she said that my guide said "Crystal, that's you.!"
By time I realized how I connected with birds, she was giving her goodbye speech and I was thinking WTH.!? The whole way home I reamed him asking why he would've came through with the dam birds. I very simply said, use the word love.!
I tell my story because I give readings every day and every day I have at least one client waiting to hear that one word. Sometimes they give it, sometimes they don't.
What they will give are memories that you shared, celebrations that are coming and dates of things that would mean something to only you. I tell my clients to not expect anything except a beautiful message and this is why.
Spirit is not a side show and neither am I. I give the messages they want to share and that is all. I do not control what they say and I cannot read their minds. So, if they do not say that one thing for what ever reason they have, please don't tell me " Well, I can believe you more if you tell me that word."
Like the stories of your childhood weren't enough.? Have respect for them. They give what you need when you need it and not a second sooner. You don't expect your living loved ones to call you out of the blue and prove themselves by saying one word. So why would you expect that from the ones that are no longer here.?
As I stated in the beginning, I know where you're coming from. I've been in your shoes, I've seen a medium and I've asked to contact my loved ones. So I know the importance of what they say.
When I pass their messages using their personality, along with memories only you shared with them I'd say they're doing a good enough job to not be questioned. It's like a lot of other big named mediums say, if you're going to question the messages than don't waste my time or spirits.
Love and Light to you all.!!!